Did you and your partner have a secret engagement?
BBCDid you keep your engagement a secret?
It might be uncommon, but some couples do it for a certain period of time.
You might have decided to keep your engagement secret for a number of reasons, privacy, uncertainty or concern about the type of reaction you might receive from family and friends.
Whatever the reason we want to hear your story.
Why did you decide to keep it a secret? How long did it last? What was the reaction when you officially announced your engagement?
Email us at haveyoursay@bbc.co.uk with your story.
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